sometimes I set up my goals high enough to the point it scares myself but also excites me; especially when I know that that should be in everyone's goal since it is one of human's basic needs.
and all I want and all I need is encouragement and fair knowledge & guidance given as support from those who are close to me, but sometimes the goal might be so big that they get scared more than you yourself. 😅
but yes, I wonder why..
why people don't hesitate to buy expensive car, but hesitate to buy a house?
of course the total price of a house is always bigger than an expensive car, but there's no big difference between monthly instalment for a house compared to an expensive car. yes, true.
because the loan tenure for a house can be maxed up to 30 years, yet the loan tenure for a car can only be maxed up to 9 years.
scared to buy a ±MYR250k house that you need to pay in 30 years but aren't scared to buy a ±MYR100-150k car that you need to pay in 9 years?
I mean like, if you are not ready to commit in buying a house but you're not eager to commit on buying expensive car either then okay that's normal.
But if you don't want to commit in buying a house yet you are eager to buy an expensive car, then that's 'weird'. But that 'weird' is what normal is nowadays. 🤦🏻♀
Think about it.
#thoughts@quietworld🍃
There are lots of things that we're capable to think of, but often times we didn't take the time to.
There are lots of things that we already know, but we do things as if we don't know what's better; and we let the truth and better way slip into our unconscious mind while we do and follow what most people or everyone else is doing.
and not everyone is thinking.
#thoughts@quietworld🍃
Most of the things in my wishlist are no longer in my wishlist; not because I've bought/own them but because I no longer want them 😂
& I'm happy & grateful that it's gone from my wishlist by me no longer want it instead of me buying them yet my excitement quickly fading out. 😘
I love myself for this lmao 😂😘🥰
#thoughts@quietworld🍃
like a bird kept in a cage
seems to be okay
seems to be all fine
seems to be living
but the truth is nobody knows what's exactly in its head
what's exactly in its heart
nobody actually cares
they just think they do
but you don't own what you care about
unless they're things
and a living one is different
you never own them
you should never think you do
#thoughts@quietworld🍃
sometimes I'm afraid because if I think people need to hear it, I tend to say things as it is; raw. my brain just finds it exhausting to sugarcoat. in short, I'm rude? 🤔
#thoughts@quietworld🍃
It's not that I've forgot what you have did for me; but it's because I remembereverything.
#thoughts@quietworld🍃
I might not be able to close one eye & spend a lot on you and make you rich in less than half a year I started working, but I try my best not to be a burden – and if that is not enough, I don't know what to say.
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Sometimes I'm not sure whether I'm actually pretending not knowing something when I actually know
or
I am pretending that I am pretending not knowing something
so that I can feel like I am not stupid, I'm just pretending that I am - when I actually am 😐
👀
in short I'm a noob person pretending to be noob, make sense? no? I'm gonna pretend that I'm noob even though I already am anyway. 🤔
#thoughts🤷🏻♀
@quietworld🍃
I highly value those who are quick to help me even when they know I have nothing to give back.
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sometimes I'm so surprised at the ratio of how much a person have to talk about me vs how much they talk or listen to me😂
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"what is in your mind, if you see a man carrying lipstick ??
I prefer to interpret it like this if you as a man can't lead, just use this lipstick .
try to think using taste rather than using data . "
Happy new year 2020
let's learn to change the way of thinking, so that our lives become more quality.
#thoughts@quietworld
Today is good.
Tomorrow will be better.
Things are slowly getting better.
Sometimes there's a slight setback and sometimes something unwanted hold you back, but things are getting better again;
will always be;
when you have a mindset of focusing on what can be done
instead of focusing on what didn't go as planned.
#thoughts@quietworld🍃