Post #1010

relationships, society, invisible problems "{1}unpopular opinion but its cool if you dont want to be in love {1} like, idk. i used to feel so compelled to make excuses for being single, whether it was self-deprecating jokes about myself or insisting that i was too busy for a relationship or making myself go out on uncomfortable and pointless dates just to make a show of trying to not be single. there's such an expectation that if you're single you should be actively working of changing that, and its like. nah. there are 9999 other things you can be focusing your time and energy on and if you dont really feel like being in a relationship now or ever thats cool. {2} true wether someone is aromantic or not"