Post #285

parenting, trauma "there is a tiktok i saw of a woman who was 80 who said when she was 13/14 and was first trying out makeup and her mom saw her put on blush, her mom said she looked like a clown and now 60+ some years later, to this day, she hears her mom's voice say that to her when she puts on blush and she ended the tiktok with how words parents say to us haunt us forever and i have been thinking about that a lot cause so many of the negative things i hear in my head forever are my mom's voice of things she said if you're a parent or plan on becoming one, don't become your child's negative voice for their entire lives"