Post #742

chronic pain, disabilities, invisible problems "i love to use my disability "as an excuse." Fuck yeah my disability is an excuse. It's the most valid excuse i have. im not helping you lift that box/etc because my disability would make it fucking painful. Not wanting to be in pain is a good enough reason. I'm not going to put myself in pain to comfort your sensibilities. Yes I'm using my disability as an excuse because i refuse to hurt myself for you. If you're mad about it you can cry! Happy disability pride month. In honor of my chronic pain flareup that i could've avoided by asking my wife for help here's your reminder to say no to stuff when it is safe to do so!! Ask for help!! This month practice saying "I can't do that. It would hurt me" or "can I have help with (x)?" Start with a friend or family member who you feel comfortable asserting your boundaries with and keep saying no."