Post #865

abuse, gaslight, guilt "Just in case anyone needed a reminder. Abusers (and enablers!) will often try to use your reaction to their abuse as a justification for the way they treat you. This is gaslighting. It's also complete bullshit. It's normal and healthy to be angry, indignant, or sad when people treat you badly. Abusers just want a way to shift the blame to you for their actions. "