Post #8868

10 NON-SEXUAL ADVICE I WISH I KNEW SOONER: Don't subscribe to other people's definition of "fun". 1. Fun doesn't have to mean drinking, partying, and socializing. Fun can be a night alone, getting lost in a book, a deep conversation, a walk, creating art, playing music, or doing your work. Fun is yours; You define it. Normalize saying "No" without needing to over-explain yourself. 2. If someone is offended by your boundaries, that's their problem. The best weight you'll ever lose is the weight of other people's opinions of you. 3. The age of 15-30 is the golden era of your life. 4. You make friends, lose them too. You make mistakes, correct them too. You fall, you fail, you learn, you realize, you hit reality, you fall in love, and you get hurt too. You lose yourself and eventually you become stronger. 99% of the harm is caused in your head, by you and your thoughts. 1% of the harm is caused by the reality of what actually happens and the outcome.