Post #8959

Never ask a girl these 3 questions: (EXPLANATIONS) 1. Do you love me? WHY: You'd know if she loves you or not from her actions and behaviors. You don't need her to tell you. And don't trust a woman's words, trust her actions. You don't even need her love to start with. Is she respecting you and your boundaries? Does she go out of her way to be with you? That's your answer. 2. Who am I to you / what are we? WHY: If it's not clearly defined, it doesn't exist. Yet, you don't need to define it. If she is not giving you the vibe you need, she's most likely not interested. She should be the one asking this because you've made her crave being with you without defining what you both have, not you. 3. Do you have a boyfriend? WHY: If she's talking to you, spending quality time, checking up, calling first... You're her boyfriend. Forget if she has one or not. If she has a boyfriend she respects and adores, she won't entertain your advances. She's not confused. She's not lying. Being a boyfriend is more about what you do together than the "name tag". Choosing you is a sign she has none or you're the one.