Post #898

These days, I see many people who claim to love themselves, but in reality, they don't. They only try to love themselves by saying (I love myself). but because they don't know how to do that, they simply fail to truly love themselves. You can only truly love yourself when you have self-esteem. as long as u don't possess self-esteem, it's not possible to love yourself. But what is self-esteem? Self-esteem is humility, Its opposite is arrogance. Humble people are not those whose heads are always bowed, but humble people always raise their heads, they are confident people. and the difference between them and arrogant people is that humble people never want to embarrass others, they don't insult anyone. Why? cuz they know that their words and behavior reflect their personality. They know that by insulting and disrespecting others, they lose self-respect, and without self-respect, self-esteem has no meaning. But arrogant people insult others very easily. and by humiliating others, they actually lose their self-respect. Remember, arrogant people can never love themselves. they may pretend that they love themselves, but there is always something that hurts them from the inside and doesn't let them to have comfort. frankly, you can't really love yourself just by writing (I love myself). We all have a wild wolf in us. try to identify the wild and ruthless wolf which exist in u and overcome it. By wild wolf, I mean some bad traits that exist in humans. For example: jealousy, lust, greed... If you can control the merciless wolf of u, you win. If the wild wolf takes control of u, you are finished. So, don't waste your time by writing (I love myself). Discover yourself, be honest with yourself, if you have a bad quality, try to turn it into a good quality, and work on yourself. increase your self-esteem.