Post #5816

I showed the dude pressuring me how "f around and find out" applies to him specifically. My home WILL BE a safe place for me, at all costs. Man. I was at open mic night earlier. One of the musicians managed to secure a ride from me. We hit the road, he immediately changes his tone and won't tell me where he's going and just insists we are going to my house, that I'm so fucking irresistible that he simply cannot be expected to control himself and respect my boundaries, even when I am dressed like a 15 year old boy who skateboards to get places; EVEN when I had already said upfront I wasn't there to get dick and was totally clear about it. Next thing I knew, I realized I was alone in my car with some fucking drunk guy who was NOT concerned one bit with my feelings about his advances. I realized he was sporting a huge survival knife on his belt, and that he thought "No" means "just keep at it." I wound up pulling into a random apt complex like a mile north of my place, telling him to sit tight while I go park the car on the front side of the bldg, and ditching him with zero explanation or apology. I was afraid of him getting angry if I stood my ground and just wanted him the fuck away from me. Idk what runs through the head of a guy like him when they're being all horny and hearing not a fucking word I'm saying. But I guarantee you he is shocked as a fucking Pikachu and deciding that I'm a sheisty bitch for what I did. Thankfully my comfort is more important than his feelings and I Know that. Idk what he expected to come of trying to tell me what's what in my own goddamn house. Jesus Fucking Christ man. Not on my turf, nor on his life. Hard pass. EDIT!-- I did text the guy who owns the place we were all at last night, and he just texted me back so he def knows now and I don't really care what anyone thinks of me besides him. So if the guy shows back up to talk down on me he is all ready for it and knows what happened at least :) I love my community quite so! www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/yqfnn8/i_showed_the_dude_pressuring_me_how_f_around_and/source