Post #5888

I think I hate my husband I’m sitting in the bath crying while I type this. I think I use to love him. But I don’t see how I ever did.... so what prompted this: My kids and I have been sick with the flu since Sunday. I got it first, then my son, and now my infant daughter . We are supposed to go to his family’s house 6 hours away and leave today. But, since our kids have the flu, we decided to wait to see how everyone felt this morning and make sure we would have 24 hours fever free. Well my daughter woke up with a 102 fever. I made the call that we shouldn’t go. My husband starts freaking out in front of our sick kids. He demands to take their temperatures ( even though I had just given them Tylenol ). It’s as down to 99. He begins to tell me I’m lying and they aren’t sick ( which they visibly are). I told him they just too Tylenol. He yells at me that I thought I had said Tylenol wasn’t working to reduce their fevers ( again so that I’m lying). He says I’m doing this because I’m trying to make him work. When I tell him that’s not it he precedes to say “ that’s just how you are. You would make me work! ( he already had the days off)”. I began to cry and tell him it’s about the kids and keeping his grandparents safe. He tells me no one fucking believes my tears. That I hate this family and just dont want go. That the kids will be fine. I am so upset. I alway gets made out to be the monster in fights. It’s always ends like this. He loves to tell me how much people know what I do and how much they all dislike me for it. I never do anything around anyone 💔 I don’t really have anyone to talk to. I don’t have any female friend( my last one tried to sleep with him so trust issues with getting close to other females . We were best friends) so he know he can play on my fear of being disliked I guess I’ve ruined thanksgiving. What a great start to the holidays. Ba hum bug 😔 Edit: I truly hate him for this. How can a relationship recover from so much built up hate . Then he will act like nothing happened later Edit 2: married 10 years. Together 14 Edit 3: wow. I wasn’t expecting this many responses. Dealing with the flu and 2 sick kids but I plan to read through all of them when I can and explore everyone’s advice ❤️ www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/z2qirn/i_think_i_hate_my_husband/source