Post #6852

One of the worst things is being made to feel like you're taken for granted. Where, you check up on them constantly, you're always messaging them, you're readily available to them and you change your plans to suit their needs and then they become too comfortable. They think it's okay to give you less time because you won't mind. They think it's fine if they take hours to reply because you're going to reply straightaway anyway. They think that you're always going to be available to them, so they don't need to change their plans especially for you. You're partly to blame for this because you give so much of yourself to the other person that they start to think it's okay to take more, want more and be given more from you. But you need to take this control back if you want to protect yourself. You can't keep giving and giving without complaining about not being given anything in return. Yes, love and friendship are not relationships that are based on a 'give and take system. But if you're the one who constantly put your all into this love/friendship and get nothing in return, then the other person clearly doesn't love or value you enough to invest just as much into you. One of the worst things is being made to feel like you're not going anywhere' so they can do whatever they want. Because that is wrong. Tell them when you feel like you're not being treated right. And stop putting your all into others, just remember —you don't have to fight so hard to be loved and you deserve just as much respect, love, care and time as you - give to others. ^@TheLostDiary