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It's happening: attempt to use Dobbs to overturn same sex marriage Yup, it was predicted, now it's happening: www.wuky.org/local-regional-news/2024-07-24/kim-davis-legal-team-pushes-to-overturn-obergefell-citing-dobbs-decision American citizens, get off your tails and VOTE in November. American residents of any flavor: Talk to your friends, your neighbors, get them to vote. www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1ebgpif/its_happening_attempt_to_use_dobbs_to_overturn/source

Found out one of my husband's friends is abusing his wife and they all rally behind him. How do you deal with that? We recently found out that one of the boys in my husband's friend group (5 friends since high school so 15+ years) is extremely abusive to his wife (they also have 2 kids under 6). Here are some things we found out from his wife. Has been having an affair since March with a co-worker, having unprotected sex and then coming home and having sex with her. Says he's leaving her for his AP. Has hit her once early in the relationship and continues to have no issue physically pushing her out of the way when he storms out during a fight. Forced her to perform sex acts she's never done nor wanted to do in order to 'win him back'. During this he stopped halfway through tell her she's disgusting, he's not attracted to her and blames her for 'manipulating him into sex'. (because remember, he's in love with his affair partner!) Constantly flip flops between saying he's making a mistake and wants to be with his wife, then literally leaving to go see his AP and tell her the same thing. Tell her he hates her constantly, calls her disgusting, worthless and even worse things. Has started being mean to his 3 year old son for being a 'cry baby and a sissy'. drinks all night long and is doing cocaine and god knows what other drugs. Explicitly tells her every sexual thing he's done with his affair partner. Constantly promises he's going to be right back to make dinner for the kids but never returns. Tried to prevent the other wives in the friend group from talking to her (gee, I wonder why). Wife had a mis carriage at 4 months last year and told everyone "she was different afterwards! All I want is a hot meal and blowjob after I get home from work." Y'all. This man sells boats. HE'S A SALESMAN! Forced her to have anal sex (literally snuck it in DRY). She cried and said it was the worse pain she's ever felt. He tells her he still fantasizes about it. Can you imagine your partner fantasizing about causing you extreme sexual pain? The problem is that even knowing all of this stuff, the boys in the group say "Well he's never done anything like that to me! We've been friends for YEARS and I've never seen him do anything like that." They said they are not ready to give up on their friend. I've always been suspicious of him, he always gave me a bad vibe and even my husband's own parents told him the same thing (SINCE HIGHSCHOOL). Over a year ago I told my husband that his friend was going to do something, do what I don't know, I just had this gut feeling. But this is so much worse than I ever thought. I am furious. They all say what he did was not okay and they don't condone any of it and they are all super upset about it yet....they don't say any of that to their friend. They don't explicitly tell him that what he's done is fucked up and he needs help. They just act like nothing happened when he's around. My husband has been the most upset about this, he's realized he doesn't know his friend and he is not okay with what he's doing to his wife (who is a truly good-hearted person, probably why he was able to get away with it for so long) but doesn't want to let a 15+ year friendship go. Even if he did let the friendship go, the rest of the boys group aren't so what does that mean for him? I don't know how to deal with that. How can you be friends with someone who does that to women? How can you allow him anywhere near another woman? Why are all the guys so eager to put the mask back on? I cannot un-see or un-know what I know. Who will protect women if all the men in our lives turn their backs on abuse? Where is the line to stand up for what is right? Why won't any of the men stand up for women against other men? I've lost so much respect for them and I am struggling with my husband's involvement. I c... source

Jennifer Aniston criticizes JD Vance for ‘childless cat ladies’ remarks: ‘I pray that your daughter is fortunate enough to bear children’ www.cnn.com/2024/07/25/entertainment/jennifer-aniston-jd-vance/index.htmlsource

BREAKING: In a stunning leak, JD Vance is found to be calling for a federal response to stop women from traveling from red states to blue states to receive reproductive healthcare. Retweet so all Americans hear this devastating leak. x.com/harris_wins/status/1816649443157930437?t=5h94sFdeJti7lBZB8wurcA&s=19 www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1ecnouc/breaking_in_a_stunning_leak_jd_vance_is_found_to/source

Am I in the wrong for having my boobs out while watching tv with my boyfriend? I’ve F25 been with my boyfriend M38 for 6 years. Today when we were watching tv on the sofa I lift my shirt up so my boobs were exposed because I was so hot. When he saw this he seemed surprised and mad. He said «what the fuck are you doing? Why are you laying there like that? Would you like it if I had my dick out?» and told me some things should be left for the imagination. I got pissed off and hurt to be honest, and when I told him that he said I was trying to ruin the night and mood, if I wanted to fight then he would go to bed etc. I don’t understand what to feel and how to interpret this, and I felt like a disgusting pig because of what I did because of that comment. What would you do in this situation? www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1ed4qkd/am_i_in_the_wrong_for_having_my_boobs_out_while/source

“I can’t wait until she is 18” TW abuse Today my daughter Z told me that this summer was the worst summer of her life. I agreed with her. Every single day she has walked to the library with me so I could work my full time job until I can pay for home internet and the air condition is a huge plus. She keeps herself busy helping the librarian or she reads but I know it isn’t what she wants to be doing. Z told me she misses her old life back home. She misses “good meals” and being able to get whatever snacks she wants at the grocery store. She misses making her bed. We are still sleeping on glorified dog beds on the floor. She misses riding her bike. She misses our cat who recently passed and I do too. I miss it all too. She then says “ Tim (my ex) didn’t hurt you until after we left and that is why he got mad. If we go back and promise not to leave, can we?”. I never told her about the “accidents” that were happening that made me leave. I had to explain how he hid my epi pen and started using the condoms I was allergic to. I told her about him poisoning my soup. I told her about the money he stole. I'm ashamed to admit that if he was just hurting me I would go back. Everything is so fucking hard and it feels like it’ll take years to rebuild and give my daughter the life she deserves. Except he wasn’t just hurting me, he was after her. I had to tell her that after we left one of his friends told me how he would talk about her. How obsessed he was and how he was waiting until she was 18. Having to answer her questions "why would he like me like that","he is way old", "he knew me when I was a little girl he was like my dad", "I'm not a woman yet like you" was so hard. It was a very mature and emotional conversation. No amount of money would ever make me go back. I'm sharing this as a frustrated vent but also in case there is someone who is being hurt but doesn't want to leave because it feels like you can't. Your kids are going to be mad. It’s going to be so fucking hard, impossible some days. There is nowhere near enough help that you will need. Losing “everything” is devastating. I won't say it gets better because I don't believe it will anytime soon but I do know it won’t get worse. There is nothing worse than living with someone who is hurting you or even worse, hurting your kids. Edited my post so it isn't about her schooling. She is enrolled in school. She is just doing online "e learning" instead of physically going to school. www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1ee3ncl/i_cant_wait_until_she_is_18/source

Marriage dangled like a carrot on a stick One of my friends had been with her boyfriend for 8 years. They had been discussing marriage for the final 5 years of their relationship but he always had a reason not to Not yet. One day. Im focusing on my career right now. Etc etc. This went on until one day he told her to stop bringing it up and he will propose when hes ready. For a while she was doing everything in her power to "prove" she was worthy of being his wife. Of course, he LOVED this attention.... Fast forward to January of this year, my friend has drastically had a change of heart. She no longer feels the need to get married. She felt things had been working fine between them without a ring on her finger etc. She no longer sees the value in getting married. So she brought it up to him, who... well.....he broke up with her. He told her he doesnt want to be with someone who doesnt want to get married. He got into another relationship after 2 months of breaking up. Today, he got engaged to her. No doubt a pregnancy announcement will follow Its made me think about the reasons some people use the promise of marriage like this. He had my friend right where he wanted her. Like some kind of hold. He was in control. He loved the attention he was getting and thought he would no longer get the benefits once they were married. He just, used her to massage his ego :( www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1eedzv5/marriagedangledlikeacarrotonastick/ [source](www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1eedzv5/marriagedangledlikeacarrotonastick/)

So ladies I look like this!! Like a nice person and for some reason that triggers men For some reason men want to find some deep down place where I am a total deviant, or they want to know if I have a “bad side,” to me lol, why does that matter so much to them ? Having a dark side?? source

Confession: I won’t date/sleep with men who don’t go down That’s it; that’s the post. Since I was 14, I have had one very important rule: any man I date or sleep with has to go down on me. This is a hard boundary I’ve had for 50% of my life, and it will never change. I’ve offended people by saying it out loud though; I’ve been downvoted here on this very subreddit for saying it. But it holds fast; any guy who gives less than an enthusiastic “yes“ when I ask if they eat out, is an immediate “no“ to dating/sleeping with. I‘m sure I‘ll be downvoted on this post too, or be called shallow/screamed at that “men can have boundaries too!“ Next, I‘m sure it’ll be pointed out that a partner can use a vibrator or finger me (yawn; I can do that stuff myself and better) but it’s futile: I will never give any guy who doesn’t go down the time of day and it will never change. Ladies reading this: I hope you all make this your hard boundary too! Our pleasure is not negotiable Edit: I keep seeing well meaning people commenting how it’s okay for men to have boundaries, and I would just like to point out that this boundary is very likely to be rooted in entitlement and misogyny, and I advise you all to still not sleep/date a person like that even if you genuinely are one of the small percent of woman who don’t enjoy receiving oral. Kisses to everyone offended by this post, or frantically trying to ascertain whether this post is okay by if I orally please my spouses or not. 😘 www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1eethgb/confession_i_wont_datesleep_with_men_who_dont_go/source

Although i’m a black man i found this on Instagram and I thought id share with you all as this is really important, Sonya Massey deserves justice. source

None of my friends showed up to my brunch celebrating my small business A year ago I quit the cleaning business I worked for and set out on my own to start a one-woman cleaning business. I saved up and bought supplies, a professional vacuum, and started an IG to market. For my one year anniversary I planned a laid back brunch at a local bar my friends and I go to a lot and let everyone know the date and time almost a month in advance. My closest friends I’m in a GC with hyped me up for weeks, most promised to come (some had to work), then yesterday no one showed. The cancellation texts started rolling in about an hour before but several of my friends did not even text or check in, just completely stood me up. I am devastated and very hurt. I don’t have much to look forward to in life but my small business. I will never graduate, get promoted, and I’m not on track to have a baby or get married, so celebrating all the traditional milestones is out of the question for me. Now a day later a few people are apologizing, offering to reschedule and I haven’t replied because I just don’t know what to say. I don’t want to be petty and immature but I also don’t want to just wave it away and be like “that’s okay!” because honestly…. I feel like it isn’t. Multiple people who told me they would come out less than 24 hours before flaked. I just don’t get it. www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1efa7j0/none_of_my_friends_showed_up_to_my_brunch/source

Trump is everything Christianity despises (Greedy, blatant liar, hateful, and basically atheist) yet will still receive the majority of votes from Christians It's insane just how the MAJORITY of Christians don't even follow their own "Holy Book". Let me ramble off a few things off the top of my head. -Lied about reading the bible, but doesn't know a single verse -Vehemently anti immigration, despite the bible practically advocating for open borders and a united society -Slowly trying to potray himself as a "savior with god's protection" -Similarly labeling himself as a prophet, when the bible warns against false prophets -And on top of all this, still having the balls to LIE repeatedly about being blessed, loving christianity, etc when he truly doesn't give a shit. Almost seems like a cult with how he uses religion to control his fans... -And did I mention he's a liar? I've never seen someone so good at lying in my life, it's pathological and millions of idiots fall for it. If christianity was real, Trump would be in the deepest depths of hell. Yet HE was the one who deserves to be "blessed by god". It's scary how many mindless ~~christians~~ drones there are in the US. People NEED to realize that another Trump presidency can and WILL be the start of societal downfall. www.reddit.com/r/atheism/comments/1e8i94n/trump_is_everything_christianity_despises_greedy/source