scribbled diary

If you have to consistently fight for someone to see your worth / treat you the way you deserve, it does not matter how much they claim to love you, don’t settle. There is always a love that will be ready. To honor, to cherish and to value you in the ways you’ve always dreamed. Be patient until you find it @TheLostDiary ━━━━━━━━━━

Always pray for alignment. To be at the right place, doing the right thing, at the right time, around the right people, which will eventually help you reach where you want to be. @TheLostDiary ━━━━━━━━━━

The most powerful way to heal someone is to listen. Don’t think or judge just listen. People start to heal the moment they feel heard. You can’t be a healer if you refuse to step outside of your own emotions and view things entirely from the perspective of the other person.. @TheLostDiary ━━━━━━━━━━

one thing about GOD. when he sees you trying your best he surely will handle the rest. have faith. @TheLostDiary ━━━━━━━━━━

That's the one thing you have to understand. If it was really meant to be. Then it would have been. Nothing more. Nothing less. And nothing in-between. I just hope it doesn't take you a lifetime to understand this. @TheLostDiary ━━━━━━━━━━

once you betray me, you lose that version you once had of me forever. whether i choose to forgive you or not, you'll never get that same me again and it's not even intentional.. my heart won’t view you the same, my soul won't tolerate you the same & my mind won't ever forget it. @TheLostDiary ━━━━━━━━━━

OVERTHINKERS, read this 1. That story ain't real. None of it. That fear, insecurity, and that imaginary story you're obsessing about, it's all in your head. Every time you find yourself in that story, dragggggg yourself to the present. 2. You don't know Accept it. You're going crazy jumping to conclusions about a thing that isn't even there. Sometimes it's okay to just accept and tell yourself "i don't know". 3. What if, what if Overthinking is a longgggg chain of what ifs. What if that happens, what if it doesn't work, what if i fail, what if. Don't complicate it. Take a breath, you'll be fine. 4. Zoooom out In the bigger frame of things, what you're obsessing about doesn't even matter. Try, fail, fall, learn and get back up again. That's life, live it. 5. Meditate / Workout Thoughts ain't leaving you? Sit at a quiet place and take 10 long deep breaths. Meditate or Workout. It really helps. 6. Do one thing well Make a to-do list. Write down two or three things that you need to do. Do them one by one. You don't have to do everything. Just do one thing well. Life is long. You'll make it. 7. Enjoy the ride Life is full of ups and downs. Obsessing about every little thing won't fix it. When it's sunshine, have fun. When it's dark and stormy, let it pass. Life is change, keep moving and you'll be ok. 8. Be Disciplined To heal yourself, fix your old toxic patterns and achieve what you choose to focus on @TheLostDiary ━━━━━━━━━━

Once you start loving and valuing yourself, people will no longer look good to you unless they are actually good for you. That’s growth.. @TheLostDiary ━━━━━━━━━━

you are not a burden if you are taking time to heal yourself. you are not sensitive if you feel everything. you are not weak if you have a kind and soft heart. you are not selfish if you set boundaries to protect your peace. you are not cold hearted if you are often quiet. @TheLostDiary ━━━━━━━━━━

physical appearances really don’t matter because once u start loving someone they no longer look like a person they just look like love to u @TheLostDiary ━━━━━━━━━━

as long as I didn't do anything wrong. i don't care if we never speak again. @TheLostDiary ━━━━━━━━━━

May you fall a little more in love with yourself. May you fall more in love with those that lift you up. Maybe you fall in love with a song, a painting, or some words that resonate so deeply. Maybe you fall in love with a sunrise, a cool winters day, or a quiet cosy evening at home. May you fall in love with the sounds of children playing, the smell of a daisy or dinner cooking on the stove. Love doesn't always have to be with a significant other. Fall in love with life. With the small things. With the everyday moments. There is so much to love in this life, sometimes you just need to know where to look. @TheLostDiary ━━━━━━━━━━