scribbled diary

Be patient Take the time you need to fully assess and heal from your trauma. Ask yourself: • What happened? • What did I learn? • What happens next? In order to prevent future hardships, it's important to understand these answers.

if they don't feel like home don't overstay your welcome.

love what loves you, but don't hate what hates you, they aren't worth your attention.

I literally have no energy left in me to hate anyone, I have no space in my heart to carry that shit around. I either love you, wish you well or you don't exist for me. // @TheLostDiary💗

I know you don't like being alone. But you have to stop stressing it. You have to stop forcing things to happen. A new relationship will bloom when you least expect it. You just have to stop trying to control everything. And accept the way things are. And let things happen as they should, at their place, pace and time. And when the universe decides you are ready. you will be ready. // @TheLostDiary💗

strong people break too, they just do it quietly, rebuild in silence and keep it moving.

I have what I have, and I'm happy. I lost what I lost, and I'm still happy

don't chase anyone who has made it clear that they don't care enough to stay. Let them go, let them go, even if saying goodbye seems the toughest thing to do.

Hustle culture is making people in their 20s feel like they are running out of time. Trust me, you've enough time. So take it easy on yourself. Secure your future, work for your dreams but also don't forget to live your present to the fullest 💯 // @TheLostDiary💗

A soul that carries empathy is a soul that has survived enormous pain. Empathy is trying to understand what others are feeling. It’s actually seeing the world through another person’s eyes… // @TheLostDiary💗

There's so much more to life than finding someone who will want you, or being sad over someone who doesn't. There's a lot of wonderful time to be spent discovering yourself without hoping someone will fall in love with you along the way, and it doesn't need to be painful or empty. You need to fill yourself up with love. Not anyone else. Become a whole being on your own. Go on adventures, fall asleep in the woods with friends, wander around the city at night, sit in a coffee shop on your own, write on bathroom stalls, leave notes in library books, dress up for yourself, give to others, smile a lot. Do all things with love, but don't romanticize life like you can't survive without it. Live for yourself and be happy on your own. It isn't any less beautiful, I promise. // @TheLostDiary💗