scribbled diary

Being private and not telling everyone everything even when you have a lot to say is the ultimate self-care.

Sometimes, the biggest lesson you can receive is knowing when to let go. It's such a difficult thing to do to look at someone who makes you incredibly happy, but also causes you undeniable pain and say, 'i am moving away from you. 'But it's an action we must take if we care about our mental and emotional health. It doesn't matter how happy they make us, if they are also the cause of our sorrow then we must leave and not return until we can be just happy in their presence. And if that never happens, if we can never be just happy with them by our side, if pain will always follow the happiness that they bring - then we must accept that this was as far as this person was meant to stay in our life, and that is all. Sometimes, the most beautiful lessons are the hardest, and leaving is the most difficult out of the rest to do. But to love ourselves, we must learn to let go of those who cannot give us the love that we deserve. // @TheLostDiary

enough drama for the day. bye 🙈

i ain't easy. I understand. But you have to do it. Life's more beautiful on the other side. TRUST ME on this. cause 'been there done that'😉

and you need not show them anything after your breakup. you need not show them that you're happy without them. no. nothing. just forget their existence. they don't deserve your attention even for a second.

sounds bitter. and rude. but it's high time you stop crying over those who don't give a fuck about you.

i said this cause I've been lately getting texts on self worth, and breakups, and anxieties. remember you cannot ruin your life for another person ( no matter how seriously you fell for them ) cause love never asks you to ruin your life. there's a life beyond love and relationships, live it.

in case yall doubt your worth after a failed relationship, or after a breakup. remember you're not the problem, maybe they aren't the problem as well. it's just that you weren't meant to be. and maybe something better awaits you. what I mean to say is that you shouldn't waste your time introspecing the breakup or the reasons why it happened. rather try to move forward, and start working on yourself asap.

⠀‌ ⠀‌ ‌⠀‌⠀ ⠀‌ ⠀: ¨·.·¨ : ‌⠀ ⠀‌⠀⠀ ` ·. that breakup saved you. ⠀‌

The level of detachment I have right now in life is scary.

Every day I wonder if things are going to get better or worse but all we can really do now is try to be nicer and easier on each other.

No relationship is perfect but please realize when someone is taking advantage of you, belittling you, emotionally abusing you, or treating you any less than what you are worth.